The title of this post sounds sad and lonely; but I promise you it’s not! In fact, it’s the opposite. It’s a reflection on finding peace and happiness in those moments of necessary solitude that we almost never allow ourselves.
A very wise friend/personal hero of mine has a philosophy he shared recently:
I don’t think I could agree more with his philosophy. I realized recently that for the last 24 years, I’ve spent nearly all of my time with another person (parents, roommates, friends, boyfriends, etc) and have never really stepped back to take a good look at my reflection, completely alone and completely independent of anything/one else.
That’s what this whole move has been about for me. Spending time alone, with myself. I’m not a hermit. I still go out, meet new friends, visit with family; but I’m learning to appreciate the solitude in my new life here. The simple things like having breakfast in complete silence and being fully conscious and aware of where I am in that moment. Going on walks in my new neighborhood, spending an hour everyday writing or reading a book before bed. (All of which I did in my own life, but without the conscious effort of self reflection).
Last week I spent the 24 hours in meditation at an Ashram in nearby Villa de Lleyva. I’d never spent that much time alone in my own thoughts and it was interesting: I learned more about myself in that 24 hours than I may have in the last 24 years. It’s something about shutting off everything around you. All the noise, all the negativity, and the outside thoughts. You begin to hear yourself a little differently and you pay attention because you can’t hide from your thoughts without the outside noise.
I still have a lot of growing to do but I’m open to it. I know that learning to be alone is the best achievement so far.
(Ps- If you’d like to know more about the amazing work that BC does, check him out HERE! He’s truly a beautiful human being.)
Recently, I was bit by the nature bug. I’ve been jonesing to get out into nature and go for some hikes, explore the Colorado back country and maybe even hike a 14er. Conveniently, this happened when summer has come to an end, and when the warmer days are dwindling. With a couple good hiking days left in the year, I dragged Tyty out in search of the famous color changing Aspen trees last weekend.
Rocky Mountain National Park is only an hour and a half drive from Boulder and Saturday the park was free so decided to get our explorin’ on. As soon as we pulled in we saw a small heard of elk!
Honestly, I can’t believe I’ve lived in Colorado for 5 years and never been out there.
It’s absolutely beautiful! Spectacularly beautiful.
The trailhead we wanted to start at was packed so we decided to go on a whim and take a different route through the back. We started toward Bierstadt Lake.
When we got there, the scene was breathtaking!
Utterly peaceful and if you’re quiet you can hear elk bugling in the distance.
Two city kids getting in touch with nature.
It also helped that we ended up with the best possible weather that morning! Gorgeous blue skies and a pleasant 76 degrees!
A couple of miles later, we reach Bear Lake.
How fantastic is it?
As soon as we got comfortable a family of birds swooped in around us and started asking for some of our seeds! We decided to share a couple with our new friends (don’t know how kosher that is in NatureLand…). A few minutes later, a squirrel was hanging out overhead and I was really starting to feel like Snow White…
We decided enough was enough and set off to continue our hike.
The hike was about 6.6 miles round trip and could be finished in around 5 hours, including stopping for lunch and photo ops. If you’re planning a morning hike, I highly recommend this trail! It’s steep but definitely doable and a good butt workout (~5.3 in difficulty). Set out early to avoid crowds and don’t forget a couple power bars and plenty of water!
So I know its not quite summer but Memorial Weekend has become my official summer kick-off since moving to Boulder. This weekend I’ll be BBQ’ing, Creek Festing, working on my tan, and running the BolderBoulder on Monday (4 years strong!).
In the meantime, here are a couple summertime things I’ve been dreaming about…
Happy Weekend! What are you up to this holiday?
Today is the 3rd Birthday of Red Wine and Lipstick! It’s been a little inconsistent but still a great way for me to get my thoughts out there when I have them!
Thank you to all who have read, supported and enjoyed reading my thoughts! Here’s to another year of blogging and spreading ideas!
This weekend we did a spot of cultural checking out. Wednesday we went to El Centro (The Centro), which is the oldest part of the city, known for its governmental buildings and historical locations and classic Colombian neighborhoods. We spent a good part of the afternoon exploring one of the city’s most famous locations: El Museo del Oro (Gold Museum), which holds thousands of pre-Columbian/pre-Hispanic gold artifacts and is the largest gold collection in the world.
Afterwards, we skipped across a plaza or two over to the Museo Botero, which houses an amazing collection of Fernando Botero’s (famous Colombian artist) art, along with other works by artists like Renoir, Picasso, Monet, and Degas.
Today we’re headed to Cartagena for a couple days, where more adventures and food await us… See you Wednesday!
Well, as promised to various family and friends, I’ll be blogging about our (me and Tyty) trip to Colombia!
My grandpa is getting married at the end of our trip, so we decided to fly down, do a bit of exploring in Bogota and outside the city while hanging out with my family. The journey’s about 8 hours by plane, so we watched a lot of inflight TV and ate snacks. (Btw, Broadchurch on BBC, is a brilliantly addictive and suspenseful show!).
I got a fancy new blogger’s camera for my birthday this year (thanks Dad!) and figured it was the perfect excuse to dive back into blogging…. however, I’m still trying to figure the camera out and learn all the settings. Bare with me, I promise the pictures will improve over the week.
When we landed, it was 5 til midnight and we were greeted by my uncle and grandpa at the gate. The biggest surprise? It was soo warm! Bogota is not known for tropical, sunny climates like the rest of the country. It’s typically rainy and a little cold, so the warmth was a pleasant surprise coming from 30 degree weather in Boulder.
We tried our best to fall asleep quickly so the next day we could begin exploring. After a simple and delicious breakfast (fresh juice, cheese and arepa), we were off! We started with a long walk through a popular neighborhood, called La Zona G, that was pretty close to my grandpa’s house. Tyler pointed out something I’ve always noticed but never thought about: constant construction. It’s a true sign that a lot is happening in this city and it’s continuing to grow exponentially in very positive ways. Each neighborhood here is beginning to take the shape of its inhabitants, reflecting subcultures, socio-economic backgrounds, and cultural interests–much like you might find in NYC or LA.
Soon after we found ourselves in front of Bogota Beer Company, a local microbrewery with a couple British-style pub locations around the city. The beer was excellent (similar to an Oscar Blues brew), and we may have underestimated the power of altitude…
Afterwards, we caught up with some family and later headed to my birthday dinner (yup, my bday was yesterday) with my gramps and aunts and uncles in a great part of town called “Usaquén”. It’s considered a historic district in Bogota, so very few changes have been to the infrastructure. Cobble stone streets leading to old colonial style homes and buildings, with high walls and courtyards, now house shops and chic restaurants. It has become a foodie mecca with all the hottest restaurants and bars opening in this area.
The next day was spent playing golf at the country club and hanging out with my little cousins before a big lunch (of traditional Colombian dishes) at my great-grandma’s house. Needing to digest such a big lunch, we slowly made our way back home, stopping for ice cream at one of my favorites: Crepes and Waffles (seriously, best pistachio ice cream ever), and a wine and cheese night with the fam.
So far, I think Tyty’s enjoying his time….But maybe he should do a guest blogger segment this week?
And by Hell, I mean Anna Wintour.
Fashion freaks around the universe know Wintour, her disdain for reality TV, and the uphill struggle for Kim Kardashian to get herself on a Vogue cover. For month’s the fashion world has been buzzing with the “Will she cave? Will Kanye stop being friends with her??” Well people, she caved. Anna Wintour broke down (who the fuck knows HOW) and gave Kim a cover… with Kanye, of course.
Fashion’s long reigning ice queen (who has been very vocal about not giving reality TV stars any editorial space), seemed to be slowly easing the world into a Vogue-Kardashian collaboration the last few months by offering a “steal Kim and Kanye’s” couple look on Vogue.com, featuring Kim’s little sister in a brief online photoshoot and sitting (gasp) with Kendall at the AW14 Topshop show (to clarify, you don’t get to sit with Wintour unless she asks), to Grace Coddington’s very coy remarks about a possible Kim Kover. So like True Detective, the answer was right under our nose the entire time. By courting the large reality TV brood, Anna Wintour was subliminally telling us: “I run this fucking industry, I make the rules. Get out of my way Victoria Beckham”. (Just kidding, I LOVE Vb, but lord knows she deserves a Vogue cover 1000x more. Hell, she’s a bonafide fashion designer AND her daughter tricked Anna Wintour into smiling in public.) The kover comes less than a year after Anna Wintour and her staff, very obviously, cropped Kim out of a the Met Gala’s “Best Dressed” feature.
Vogue revealed “behind the scenes” video on their website today, along with the cover which has a hashtag!??(#worldsmostinterestingcouple… hardly the most interesting, but whatever.) Now please don’t get me wrong, I am a long time Kardashian watcher; even now, with its scripted, boring scenarios. And I think Kim is beyond stunning and looks flawless on any cover…. but would she really be here if it wasn’t for Kanye? Fuck no. I called it as soon as he raided her closet a few KUWTK seasons ago and “made her over”. She looks far, far better now in head to toe haute couture, but a Vogue cover should go to someone making large and original ripples in the cultural pool.
Yes, Kim is the epitome of pop culture (like it or not, we made that happen) and she does represent so much that is going on in society (the good, the bad, and the ugly), but it does seem her star is dimming. If she was going to get this cover, it should have been years ago. She’s slowly becoming irrelevant and (dare I say it?) old*. People don’t see her as a new and exciting pop culture star anymore; but rather for her mistakes, shallowness, and seemingly lack of intelligence. Again, not saying that any of this is true…. but I have definitely noticed a lack of Kim K appreciation since her failed 72-day marriage…. If this should be anyone’s cover, it should be Kanye’s. The man deserves a nod to his creative genius in both fashion and music (but not music videos…). He’s a lyrical genius/gay fish after all, with all due respect Mr. West.
Personally, by including Kim on this cover, I think Vogue is making an extremely passive aggressive jab (or perhaps reflection?) at popular culture and the Kardashian-West’s. The inclusion of a hashtag in the cover seems to have deliberately mocking undertones, as if to say: “Generally, our readers are much more sophisticated than this, but we’ll be attracting the masses with this cover so let’s give them a pat on the head of sorts”. Also, I know they’re getting married and stuff, but it’s a little awkward that they put her in a wedding dress. Especially after the last marital fiasco of hers. The behind-the-scenes video was a blatant reference to the talked about “Bound 2” video, which was almost impossible to watch. Compared to Lena Dunham’s behind the scenes, which was fun and alluded to her GIRLS show by using season 3’s music, I felt like they were making fun of Kim and Kanye. Actually, I’m pretty sure they were. Do you think they noticed?
Maybe I’m just reading too much into it? Maybe Vogue has decided to take a drastic turn in embracing our digitally driven, social media frenzy of a culture? Or maybe Anna Wintour was sick and tired of listening to Kanye whine that she was like “okay asshole, you want a cover? First you have to let me make it a semi-joke.” Who the heck knows at this point…
Will I be waiting for my issue in the mail next month??? HELL YES I WILL. I will scour, read, re-read and critique everything about it (and probably love it). This could be the biggest thing ever, OR it could be the biggest fashion fail in a while. Watch the video here.
*(note: by “old” I mean old news… age is but a number, right?)
I’m having technical probs with images on my blog. 😦
Please stand by! I have not given up yet!
Weekends, (particularly Sundays) are made for laziness. Don’t get me wrong, I’m all about being productive and being all carpe diem, but now that the holidays are over I just want to chill. Lately, I’m much happier with a bottle of wine and something to read than going out. Especially this weekend! The east coast’s snow day caught up with us and we got nearly 8 inches of snow! Currently 10 degrees and still snowing… aka not getting out of bed (see pic):
With that in mind, I encourage you to take Sunday a little slower and curl up with a mug of tea. Finish reading your Vogue or maybe dust off a few books you promised yourself to read. Listen to Justin Timberlake’s 20/20 Experience part 1&2. Make a list of recipes you want to try this week. Mentally prepare yourself for the return of Downton Abbey tonight. Even this article agrees with me!
Whatever it is, make sure you don’t get out of bed. Or at least if you do, only do it to make something tasty. If you need some ideas for things to make your day lazy check out my list:
- This and this Tumblr (for those who seek a little visual inspiration)
- A throwback list that will make you think you’re back at your middle school dance.
- #selfieolympics (selfie inspo for your next Instagram.)
- Get lost in Wikipedia. I guarantee you wont even realize it’s Monday before you stop! These are my favorite!
- Life is too short to be a vegetarian.
- Some British humor about American humor.
- For the fashionistas.
Happy Sunday and stay cozy everyone! Let me know what your favorite lazy day things to do are!